When you blame others, or when you blame your life for things that happen, and are beyond your control, and for things that are within your control then you lose your sight, you tend to lose your way. This is when you also lose the will to change. If I tend to find myself in such a spot, I tend to seek help in the form of finding, and looking for different perspectives, and point of views. More often than not, I find myself at the sea shore looking at the waves, or staring up at the stars. They put things in perspective fast enough.
The dream doesn’t lie in victimization or blame; it lies in hard work, determination and a good education.- Alphonso Jackson